Mistress Electra Amore

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Mistress Electra Amore •

About

I am an accomplished and world renowned Dominatrix, Kink Educator and Emotional Release Practitioner.

I entered the scene as a curious 21 year old with an ego to match and here I am 30 years later, refined, knowledgeable and extremely skilled in the art form of BDSM and Kink.

Being involved in the fetish scene for as long as I have in one way or another, one creates quite a reputation.

I’ve written and been written about. Modelled for fetish designers, started my own latex fetish label. Been featured in mainstream magazines, newspapers, books. Mentioned on many websites, I’ve starred on TV and spoken on radio, podcasts, forums and on stage.  

Attended local and overseas events and taught kink workshops and I’ve hosted fetish clubs. My reputation is spread throughout Australia, Japan, UK and Europe.

Keep reading if you wish to know how I’ve paved the way of becoming Australia’s Regal Dominatrix.

ADDITIONAL STUDY

Urban Tantra - with Barbara Carrelles

Somatic Sexology 1st & 2nd year - with the Australian Institute of Somatic Sexology

Like a Pro / Wheel of Consent - with Betty Martin

Emotional Release - with The Spiral Institute

My History

It all began in the mid 90’s at the House of Domination in North Fitzroy Melbourne, where I was accepted to do an apprenticeship. I was traditionally trained by the owner Mistress Britt as a submissive and under the guidance of the head Mistress’s - Ursula, Susan & Sin I evolved into a switch and claimed my Dominance early in my training.

  • Mistress Britt sold the HoD to a man called Patrick a few years later, whom then moved the business into a licenced Brothel on Rose St Fitzroy and renamed the house – The Den of Inequity. The place was beautifully decked out with different themed rooms and the main dungeon painted a deep forest green.  Sadly, no sooner had the doors opened, than they closed due to poor Management.

  • During this period a sex workers union had started up and the majority of the HoD staff joined up, which was our saving grace, when we all took Patrick to court for unfair dismissal and won the case and received a payout.

  • During these earlier years I would often be seen at Richard Masters Hell Fire on a Sunday night, where Master Perry would be whipping up a storm.

  • Left with nowhere to work, I ventured off to Hobart Tasmania for a holiday and ended up working down there for a few years and this is where I meet my French maid fifi.

  • On my return trips to Melbourne, Mistress Aveline and Zara had opened up a dungeon room at No:4 Yarra St South Yarra.  This was the famous tranny brothel, owned by an old gay guy. The brothel housed working, girls, boys, Transexuals and us Dominatrix.  It was one big party vibe.

  • Aveline was then offered the upstairs of the fetish shop Lucerzia & De Sade as her new dungeon space. Wayne the owner set up 3 rooms and all amazingly designed and equipped for that period. With handmade wooden and forged metal furniture based on the torture chambers of Europe, a old medical room, the Purple and cream colours made for the best set up in Melbourne for its time.

  • I took over the running of the L&D Dungeons during the late 1990’s, with 15 staff, 4 of them apprentices, the dungeon became known for its variety of services and Bucks parties.

  • By the end of 1999, I had become a known identity within Australia as The Mistress of the Dungeons of L&D in Brunswick St Fitzroy, after being featured in a 9 page sealed section in Cleo magazine and other media attention.

  • Sadly, due to the law changes in Victoria with venues requiring licensing, we were forced to close our doors as were many B&D places and independent workers.

The closure gave me the chance to take up an offer of traveling to the UK and to work in a London Dungeon. In mid 2000, I packed my bags and headed off for new beginnings.

  • It was in London that I feel I captured the essence of what it was all about to be a Dominatrix and how to swing a cane with accuracy. I started My UK career just off Baker St in an established dungeon run by Goddess Dianna and her maids.

  • On arrival to London I attended my first ever SkinTwo Rubber Ball & Torture Garden. I had spent hours perving over these parties in magazines and now I was meeting the people in these magazines and becoming a part of its community.

  • My reputation was enhanced in the scene when I became a fetish model for the Woman’s Worship website.

  • Being an Australian trained Dominatrix also gifted me a devoted clientele base, as we were considered some of the best trained Dommes in the world, which I was unaware of until arriving.

  • By late 2000’s I became an independent Dominatrix and established My very own domestic and dungeon set up in NW6 London.

  • I became a muse for a few well-known London fetish photographers impractically Peter Felix Kurtz & his partner, whom is an incredible painter. We would spend hours doing photoshoots and posing for paintings.

  • 2001 during a visit back to Australia, I did a quick stint at Salon Kitty's Sydney. To experience working in Australia’s most famous Fetish Establishment was a dream come true and I established long term friendships.

  • Late 2004 I spent a few months living in Germany and sessioning with Lady Riva in her Gummi House, where I acquired a taste for the art of layering of latex and rubber. I also did my first fetish movies in full on latex.

Sadly, I was forced to return back to Australia and in 2005 I stepped into The Dominas Realm in Melbourne run by Mistress Cleo. This was like stepping back in time.  Even though 5 years had passed, I was welcomed at the door by the old house slave from HoD – gerry and the notaries cedric payne. This rundown brothel seemed to be the new fetish place as I also crossed paths with Mistress Britt again. 

  • Between studying a Diploma in Visual Merchandising, I took the lead in training and mentoring at the Dominas Realm. It was here that I met Anne O’Nomis and Gala Vanting during their training.

  • On a social level I became the hostess at Abode’s fetish night ‘Confessional’ for three years and wrote for Kink-E magazine as their fashion editor.

  • During my last year of study in 2007 – I started Bella Rubber with my best friend. We specialised in making one off colourful latex clothing. Which I then went on to do a small business cert with the NEIS program.

  • One of the apprentices from the Realm gifted me a book called Urban Tantra by Barbra Careless and to my delight she was coming to Australia to conduct a week long training in Urban Tantra. My life changed for the better during this training, it gave me an insight into a future with mixing both Tantric elements with Kink.

  • In 2008 I took a quick trip back to London, to pack up my things in storage and send them back to Australia, I regrettably left my BDSM furniture and art work behind with the hope I would return one day to live there again.

  • I had semi retired from pro Domme work and was working full time with Bella Rubber, which had grown into also selling latex sheeting by the metre and teaching people to make latex clothing. And was doing a roaring trade in repairing latex clothing. My latex high light was making the shell for the Red M&M in this commercial.

Then in 2010 I got swept away to Adelaide by Mistress Gabrielle. This trip wet my appetite again to do Pro Domme work. Her Dungeon was the most amazing set up I had ever seen in Australia. Hand crafted and unique, it ignited all the senses from the first step in the door. Which I hadn’t experienced anywhere else to this day.

  • The making of latex clothing came to a halt, as the glue & solvent was starting to affect my health. So I handed the Latex Buy the Metre part over to my Mother.

  • Gabrielle had hit burn out and needed to rest but didn’t want to close the Dungeon down, we came to an agreement and then I spent the next three years re-establishing what was known as the Fetish Palace. This is where I had the opportunity to put forth all My study and experience into practice.

  • I made a promise to myself, if I was going to return to Pro Domming, that this time round I would gain qualifications in the field of sexuality. Which led me into training in Sexological Body work here in Australia. I was the second group to go through the training and this changed my life even more. What I learnt supported me personally as well as professionally.  I was so impressed that I had to return and do the second year as a coach.

  • During this period of travelling for study, I also dipped my toes into touring, with a trip to Brisbane, Perth and Canberra, I gained a new revenue to earn money as a Pro Domme as well as travel.  I learnt that I didn’t need an equipped Dungeon to do sessions in.

  • My time in Adelaide came to an end and with a quick trip back to Melbourne to recover, it was during this period of time I went through a process called The Spiral. This emotional release practice managed to release unconscious patterning within my system faster than any other form of therapy I had ever done.  This 7-week program released a lifetime of shit. Leaving me inspired and ready for a new start.

My new start was moving to Sydney in 2014. I landed in town in time to assist in another Urban Tantra Training and to teach at the fetish event The Gathering.

  • Sydney took my breath away, the city and beach life style I had been seeking all my life. Though my move there wasn’t an easy start. Thanks to a few of the Salon Kitty Mistresses and a few Mistresses from Melbourne who now also resided in Sydney, I managed to find my feet.

  • I happily became an independent Dominatrix again and I toured around Australia offering sessions along the East coast from Brisbane to Hobart and Canberra being my main place to tour too. Returning to Sydney in between and soaking up the kink events and beaches.

  • Touring became a bit exhausting and in 2015 I established my own play space in Redfern. It felt great to have my own space again and I gained great enjoyment setting up both a domestic and dungeon space.

  • Though a year later I had packed up the space to go to Europe with my family for several months. 

  • On my return to Australia in 2016, I realised my dream of living back in London and buying a place in Italy wasn’t likely due to Brexit coming into effect.

  • Arriving back in Melbourne in time for Oz Kink Fest was a warm welcoming back to reality. 

As I cruised back up to Sydney and got ready to head to Byron Bay to study The Spiral program with the intention to become an Emotional Release Practitioner. I felt lost and regretful that I wasn’t returning to my own play space.

  • By the end of 2016 I was back in Sydney with new hopes around changing my career to become an Emotional Release Practitioner.

  • Canberra became my main touring spot, I was there every other week for a few days to a few weeks.  I really refined the art of being a touring Dominatrix and would often be travelling with 100 kg of gear of latex, leather, fold away bondage table etc… I established a wonderful following of kinky folk during the years. Life was great, I was thriving and living a great life style.

  • Then all of a sudden in late 2018, the whole sex industry around the world came to stop!  Back page, which was a worldwide advertising platform, was closed by the FBI and Trump introduced the FOSTA SESTA bill.  This placed the industry into a sudden and painful recession. I went from thriving to surviving and couldn’t afford to be in Sydney any more.

  • But before I left, I managed to get a spot in Betty Martins Like a Pro training on the Wheel of Consent.  This, Urban Tantra, Sex Bod and the Emotional Clearing all complemented each other in a way that gave me hope for my future.

  • I rested up in Melbourne for a few months while things in the sex industry sorted itself out and dived into Bella Rubber again. I made a few latex Strait Jackets, taught a few latex classes and saw a few regulars.

  • In 2019 Mistress Tokyo asked if I would be one of the presenters in the Kink Room at Sexpo Sydney, this started my touring off again, with heading back into Canberra on my way up. Being on stage and talking about Kink, engaged my desire to teach. I had dabbled with doing a few events and running a few workshops etc. but this time I found my purpose and fell in love with the microphone.

  • From that moment on I put myself out there to teach at every kink event I could. Including Oz Kink Fest in Melbourne being my main arena.

  • My travel took me back to Byron to assist with The Spiral crew, I started to offer Emotional Clearing sessions to friends.  

  • Then finally in mid 2019 I settled in my own space again. This time on the Northern shores of Sydney in Mosman. I set up another play space, this one was the smallest space I had ever had, but it was functional and had a beautiful atmosphere. 

  • Having my own space, allowed for me to again clarity around what I wanted to do and I was eager to do more teaching and started to create workshops and think about offering an online apprenticeship/training,

  • By early 2020 I started to plan out the year ahead, only for the whole world to be locked down in a Pandemic!  I sensed it was going to be a long hall and packed up my beautiful Mosman space within 3 days and headed back to Melbourne.

The time off was welcoming, as I had hit burn out. So I took full advantage of resting.

  • It was during this period I created my Emotional Release website and focused on offering online sessions and taking people through The Spiral. 

  • Then I was asked to run a workshop for people wanting to learn BDSM for professional reasons.  Though we only made it ½ through then we got locked down again… I turned to online training the students.  It was during this time that I started to seriously think about creating an online training for people wanting to learn the professional side of BDSM.

  • My saving grace in 2022 was attending Oz Kink Fest as a presenter. This was like a huge reunion for everyone after years of being in lock down.

  • I returned to part time work in the Antique Jewellery Industry as I wasn’t ready to offer BDSM sessions and was doing Emotional Clearing too.  Though my heart just wasn’t in The Spiral as it once was.

  • On realising this, I asked myself what made my heart sing and the answer was Kink.

  • So I closed down my Emotional Clearing website and focused on Kink and education. I crossed paths with Anne O’Nomis again, I signed up for Oz Kink Fest, and was invited to teach at Slick and Sexpo.  Things started to flow again.

  • Mid 2023 I agreed to join Anne and run a series of Advance Workshops on Bondage, Impact Play and other topics.  I established a following of people who attended my workshops and from that I created the Spanking Booth for a way for the students to put into practice their impact skills at Oz Kink Fest and Sexpo.

  • At the end of 2023, I was asked to work part time at Lucrezia & De Sade. It had been 24 years since I had the Dungeons upstairs and with all my training and experiences, I thought it would be an ideal place to be for the next phase of my kink journey.

  • And I kicked off 2024 with teaching my first round of the Seven Realm Arts with Anne.

  • My word has become very kink focused around educating. I see my devotees still and working at L&D, keeps me in the loop with community.

  • What does the future hold?... Well let’s say there are lot of opportunities coming up for those whom wish to learn kink and I’m keeping a keen eye out for my ideal place to set up my own dungeon now Decrim is here in Victoria.

Watch this space ;-)